Chocolate on Chicken
Chocolate on Chicken Babel, Love and the Limits of Understanding I was recently listening to a presentaion about how easily we can misunderstand someone whose life experiences are radically different from our own. The speaker made some excellent observations that stood out to me. We don't only hear another person's words. We interpret those words through everything we already believe about the person speaking. Their upbringing, relationships, culture and experiences have shaped the way they communicate. Our upbringing, relationships, culture and experiences have shaped the way we interpret them. And those two worlds don't necessarily overlap. A person we trust makes an awkward remark, and we give them the benefit of context. A person we distrust makes the identical remark, and suddenly it becomes evidence of everything we already suspected about them. The words haven't changed. Our interpretation has. Trying to u...